Let’s talk about two of the most underrated parts of the male body—the prostate and the perineum. Chances are, you’ve heard the names before, but maybe you never gave them much thought. Time to change that.

The Prostate

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located between your balls and your butt, right under your bladder. If you’re looking for it from the back door, it’s roughly two inches in. Its main job? Producing semen.
But here’s where it gets interesting. The prostate contains thousands of nerve endings, making it the the primary erogenous zone for men and earning its nickname as the “male G-spot”. For a lot of guys, stimulating it can lead to orgasms that are wildly more intense than the conventional penile orgasm. Some men have even nicknamed prostate orgasms the “Super- O” or super orgasm; “a non-ejaculatory orgasm described to be completely different (full body, no refractory period) and orders of magnitude more powerful than a penile orgasm. It's often described as the height of physical pleasure”. Sounds like hype, but ask anyone who’s gotten there—they’ll tell you it’s the real deal.

Now, fair warning: this isn’t usually a first-time discovery. Like anything actually worth doing, it takes a little patience and practice. But the payoff? Yeah, worth it.

The Perineum

The perineum is that stretch of skin between your balls and your butt—also known as the taint, the gooch, or whatever nickname you grew up with. Your prostate sits just above it, which means you can actually stimulate the prostate externally by massaging or applying pressure to this perineal area. This is a great option for those who are exploring the area for the first time and are looking for an option that doesn’t require any penetration.

That’s actually the whole idea behind The Prostate & Perineum Massagers. The shape and vibration are designed to hit that spot just right, boosting blood flow to the pelvic region. The result? Harder erections, stronger orgasms, and just an all-around better time. 

Ready to Give It a Shot? Here’s How.

Start slow. Really. Just use your fingers or finger sleeve to explore the perineum—press, rub, see what feels good. Some guys like a light touch, others prefer a firmer pressure with a little movement. You can keep it to just that area, or mix it up with some stroking while you’re at it.

If you’re vibing with it and want more intensity, bring in vibrator. Hold it against your perineum and let the vibrations do their thing. It ramps up the sensation fast.

Feeling brave and want to go internal? Cool. Just make sure you’re clean—fingers trimmed, no jagged edges, and ideally right after a shower. For first-timers, fingers or a purpose-built prostate massager are your best bets.

And for the love of God, use lube. Lots of it. There’s no such thing as too much here. Start by lubing up your fingers and gently massaging the outside of the anus before you even think about sliding in. When you’re ready, go slow. The prostate is about two inches in, and to find it, angle your fingers upward—toward your belly button—and curl them slightly, like you’re motioning someone to “come here.” You’ll feel a small bump, about the size of a walnut. That’s it. Once you’ve found it, experiment with pressure and motion until you hit what works for you.